Nonie! Unfortunately I have no financial advice to give (European) however I did have a cat who went through the exact same thing. He was also put on a catheter for a few days and after that he pulled through and then was given a special diet and medication. You'll likely have to give him medicated food from now on, but there is a possibility that he will be OK!
Fingers crossed for your baby. I know what you're going through. Blocked cats are a nightmare :(
I’m typing this in quite an emotional state so I apologise if this is a bit rambling:
I am 30, working in a creative field in one of the most expensive cities in the world and living with my parents. I am an only child. I graduated from 3 of the best art schools in the world (not saying this to brag, more to emphasise my next point) and yet feel completely non functioning and unemployable as an adult.
After a bad breakup a couple of years ago and after dealing with that in a very healthy way (going to DBT therapy, reaching out to and developing friendships and support from healthy and positive friends, doing more self care, focussing on my creative work) I actually made a lot of progress in a short amount of time… I had lots of shows, including some solos, did my first art fair, started writing and interviewing and have just been offered another international solo… I still feel like a child and that I am emotionally holding myself back because I am making money in drips and drabs, it’s split 50-50 with the galleries also and I’m living in a fucking expensive city. So I’m living with my parents. At 30. And, without going too deep into their level of narcissism and control… they have always lacked boundaries in a big way, belittled my capabilities, been financially abusive (called me entitled, a bitch and other names and threatened to pull financial support, all because I told them I found them controlling), manipulated and guilt trips me among many other things.
I recently found out my mother is stalking my social media to see what shows etc I’m doing and it really upset me because that’s yet again another crossed boundary. It brought everything back and I feel violated and unsafe.
I don’t know what to do - moving out doesn’t feel so easy. I’ve only been able to save about £10k and that goes so quickly in my city.
I know this is a bit vague but advice and understanding from others would be really valued right now.
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imagine if u just... got a job? full time? without expecting mommy's money to back u up
Nona this sadly sounds like a regular story of a UK creative her age, I'm guessing she lives in London. The UK has become a bit of a nightmare to live and work in for young people in certain sectors.
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