Seriously. It's all obese nerd males with long ponytails and their equally obese nerd wife/girlfriend. I'm not trying to be a bitch but being bisexual, I'm often contacted by poly people looking for their "unicorn" and almost all of them are overweight and ugly. I rarely get messages from overweight, ugly monogamous men or women. This seems to be a phenomenon exclusive to the poly people...can some poly OKC people explain this to me?