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tbh i have more respect for ppl like party who dont hide that they come here than i do ppl like meowtan who try to act all holier than thou about this community
i'm just gonna be honest - i don't give a fuck about women that aren't my family
ontd_pandemic melting down over beautiful women who are members of ontd & insisting they are ugly. glad everything is back to normal. 😍
i’m so clumsy i just sprayed my trash can to clean it and was organizing my cleaning supplies and slipped on the residual spray that landed on the floor, fucked up my nails, broke my dishwasher door and got blood everywhere from this two inch gash in my arm.
i’m blaming it on my neighbor letting his friend park in my spot i’ve been in a bad mood ever since
i’m blaming it on my neighbor letting his friend park in my spot i’ve been in a bad mood ever since
this is why i don't understand how people can share such personal details on ontd. one of you psychos could easily show up to her store and murder her.
just logged on for the first time today
wtf did i miss
wtf did i miss
Hello. I stumbled upon this DreamWidth website tonite. What is "ontd"?
catching up on the drama and i'm screaming at this comment:
meow_tan
July 2nd, 2021, 05:50 pm (local)
You’re assuming everyone upset with you bringing this up are also people who dragged Billie and Demi and Taylor. Are you sure they are? Do you think ONTD is a hive mind?
meow_tan
July 2nd, 2021, 05:50 pm (local)
You’re assuming everyone upset with you bringing this up are also people who dragged Billie and Demi and Taylor. Are you sure they are? Do you think ONTD is a hive mind?
im definitely the hottest person here ngl lmao. im a model so
LJ needs to make a way to block people where you don't see their comments or reactions but they don't know you blocked them and they can still reply to you etc. none the wiser, like how reddit is.
I want to block so many people and just not see them but idc if they think I read their annoying ass comments and continue responding to me with me having no knowledge of it. And I hate that I will get banned from ONTD for blocking people who blow
I want to block so many people and just not see them but idc if they think I read their annoying ass comments and continue responding to me with me having no knowledge of it. And I hate that I will get banned from ONTD for blocking people who blow
ia meow mix is pretty and shes thin. prettiest ontder is a reach tho
however the white girl harajuku cosplay thing is embarrassing and weird holy shit. no wonder shes a bts stan
however the white girl harajuku cosplay thing is embarrassing and weird holy shit. no wonder shes a bts stan
partyonyourhead
July 2nd, 2021, 05:25 pm (local)
I just don’t get your goal here, are you trying to point out an ONTD double standard?
the original "goal" was to post problematic tweets in the comments that I felt were worthy of discussion, much like ontd does with every other celebrity. especially because, while I don't think she should be cancelled forever because of tweets she made as a teenager, the fact that she defended chris brown two years ago makes me feel a little less bad for her and i thought others should see it. (in retrospect i acknowledge I probably should have led with the chris brown tweet and not the 6 year old homphobia tweet)
then people started getting upset, and frankly i don't understand why when, as i've stated, this is NORMAL ONTD BEHAVIOR. why are we allowed to drag billie eilish, camilla cabello, demi lovato, nicki minaj, cardi b, taylor "diabla" swift, etc. for problematic tweets but it's not ok here?
this is ontd, a gossip community. the tweets were gossip.
or are you just trying to earn points with the ontd_pandemic crowd?
idk go ask them.
meow_tan
July 2nd, 2021, 05:50 pm (local)
You’re assuming everyone upset with you bringing this up are also people who dragged Billie and Demi and Taylor. Are you sure they are? Do you think ONTD is a hive mind?
To me it just seems like you’re backtracking, instead of standing your ground and saying you want to hold her accountable you’re deflecting saying “well ontd does it with everyone else!!”, assuming the people critiquing your comment are the same people condoning what happened with Billie and etc.
Because personally I’ve been pretty exhausted with the constant dragging and old tweet pulling up and etc especially in unrelated posts.
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meow mix ain't subtle picking the white ppls names out of that list, she knew what she was doing
https://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/121111031.html?thread=20241585655#t20241585655
July 2nd, 2021, 05:25 pm (local)
I just don’t get your goal here, are you trying to point out an ONTD double standard?
the original "goal" was to post problematic tweets in the comments that I felt were worthy of discussion, much like ontd does with every other celebrity. especially because, while I don't think she should be cancelled forever because of tweets she made as a teenager, the fact that she defended chris brown two years ago makes me feel a little less bad for her and i thought others should see it. (in retrospect i acknowledge I probably should have led with the chris brown tweet and not the 6 year old homphobia tweet)
then people started getting upset, and frankly i don't understand why when, as i've stated, this is NORMAL ONTD BEHAVIOR. why are we allowed to drag billie eilish, camilla cabello, demi lovato, nicki minaj, cardi b, taylor "diabla" swift, etc. for problematic tweets but it's not ok here?
this is ontd, a gossip community. the tweets were gossip.
or are you just trying to earn points with the ontd_pandemic crowd?
idk go ask them.
meow_tan
July 2nd, 2021, 05:50 pm (local)
You’re assuming everyone upset with you bringing this up are also people who dragged Billie and Demi and Taylor. Are you sure they are? Do you think ONTD is a hive mind?
To me it just seems like you’re backtracking, instead of standing your ground and saying you want to hold her accountable you’re deflecting saying “well ontd does it with everyone else!!”, assuming the people critiquing your comment are the same people condoning what happened with Billie and etc.
Because personally I’ve been pretty exhausted with the constant dragging and old tweet pulling up and etc especially in unrelated posts.
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meow mix ain't subtle picking the white ppls names out of that list, she knew what she was doing
https://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/121111031.html?thread=20241585655#t20241585655
anyone else get the cat food jingle in their head whenever nonas refer to meow_tan as meow mix? i hate this earworm ughhh
ngl meow mix looks like it tastes so fucking good. like a crunchy salty snack
Next post needs a package of meow mix in the gif
numbedtoe
July 2nd, 2021, 04:37 pm (local)
So for my bi frands. Anyone else feeling like I do? And yeah I know spectrum, fluidity, and not 50/50 and blah blah
Men are pretty. Some of them. And a good dicking is great.good being the key word. For pure sex, 99 times out of a hundred I’m gonna go men. For pure physical attraction I’m going to look at them more than I do women. Though yeah I look at the ladies too. Always have. Dated both men and women in the past.
But for relationships? Yeah I’m only dating women I think from here on out. I just can’t do it anymore. There are so many stupid and yeah abusive jackasses that don’t treat any woman right and I’m done. I want to feel safe, have companionship, and yes intimacy. Which is bigger than and can be with or without sex. Obviously it’s with in my potential future. But I want true intimacy.
And it’s hard because I know part of it is, if not a trauma response it’s because goddamn I’m tired of these fools. So many are just trash. I don’t want to die cause we don’t click or I don’t want to see someone anymore. Be stalked or raped. Odds are in my favor with women though yeah we all know they can be horrible too. And yet that ugly thing kicks up sometimes in my head of how many bi and lesbian women are told they are only that because of trauma? The trauma myth. It’s insulting, simplistic, and lacks nuance.
I’m good at telling anyone to fuck off cause they don’t get to police my love life or reasons. But it’s been a slow slide the last few years where it feels safer and like the better option. Even though for pure sexual attraction I’m gonna pick men first. But women are on the list and it just feels a lot more viable in terms of a relationship. I can’t handle the man babies and the emotional depth and intelligence of a fork.
I’m college I read a paper talking about sexual spectrum and it had no conclusions or indictments, but it was talking about what they called “later in life” typically north of 35 and supposedly the numbers increased at 40 and 50, lesbians/bisexuals. Where women, far more than men, have a fluidity and will form relationships that do involve sex with other women and yet they feel like I do. That women can reach a point and seek out the relationship side with other women over it being a purely sexual decision. For a variety of reasons though stability and intellectual and emotional support were rated high. And no it’s not a “choice” lesbianism or bisexuality cause who doesn’t get sick of men? You can’t force an attraction that isn’t there. Though the study did bring up more women than men will have a singular same sex attraction where love came first. Often those relationships are quite successful but if it ends there was a low tendency for either person to date a woman going forward.
I read that paper like 15 years ago. And I had no big opinion on it. Made sense to me that sexuality is very individual and a lot more flexible for most, than society maybe realizes. I didn’t think one day I would go, yeah I get it. Sounds great. Sign me up. It took a few years to get here but I’m there now.
Tl;dr any other bi ladies reach a point where you want to fuck the men but only want to date/build a life with the women? Lol
https://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/121115391.html?thread=20241884159#t20241884159
July 2nd, 2021, 04:37 pm (local)
So for my bi frands. Anyone else feeling like I do? And yeah I know spectrum, fluidity, and not 50/50 and blah blah
Men are pretty. Some of them. And a good dicking is great.good being the key word. For pure sex, 99 times out of a hundred I’m gonna go men. For pure physical attraction I’m going to look at them more than I do women. Though yeah I look at the ladies too. Always have. Dated both men and women in the past.
But for relationships? Yeah I’m only dating women I think from here on out. I just can’t do it anymore. There are so many stupid and yeah abusive jackasses that don’t treat any woman right and I’m done. I want to feel safe, have companionship, and yes intimacy. Which is bigger than and can be with or without sex. Obviously it’s with in my potential future. But I want true intimacy.
And it’s hard because I know part of it is, if not a trauma response it’s because goddamn I’m tired of these fools. So many are just trash. I don’t want to die cause we don’t click or I don’t want to see someone anymore. Be stalked or raped. Odds are in my favor with women though yeah we all know they can be horrible too. And yet that ugly thing kicks up sometimes in my head of how many bi and lesbian women are told they are only that because of trauma? The trauma myth. It’s insulting, simplistic, and lacks nuance.
I’m good at telling anyone to fuck off cause they don’t get to police my love life or reasons. But it’s been a slow slide the last few years where it feels safer and like the better option. Even though for pure sexual attraction I’m gonna pick men first. But women are on the list and it just feels a lot more viable in terms of a relationship. I can’t handle the man babies and the emotional depth and intelligence of a fork.
I’m college I read a paper talking about sexual spectrum and it had no conclusions or indictments, but it was talking about what they called “later in life” typically north of 35 and supposedly the numbers increased at 40 and 50, lesbians/bisexuals. Where women, far more than men, have a fluidity and will form relationships that do involve sex with other women and yet they feel like I do. That women can reach a point and seek out the relationship side with other women over it being a purely sexual decision. For a variety of reasons though stability and intellectual and emotional support were rated high. And no it’s not a “choice” lesbianism or bisexuality cause who doesn’t get sick of men? You can’t force an attraction that isn’t there. Though the study did bring up more women than men will have a singular same sex attraction where love came first. Often those relationships are quite successful but if it ends there was a low tendency for either person to date a woman going forward.
I read that paper like 15 years ago. And I had no big opinion on it. Made sense to me that sexuality is very individual and a lot more flexible for most, than society maybe realizes. I didn’t think one day I would go, yeah I get it. Sounds great. Sign me up. It took a few years to get here but I’m there now.
Tl;dr any other bi ladies reach a point where you want to fuck the men but only want to date/build a life with the women? Lol
https://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/121115391.html?thread=20241884159#t20241884159
has numbedtoe always left long rambling comments like this?
jesus i guess we know why her toes are numb - she has to sit in one place for hours to type one comment
i know every single poc here laughed when they clicked that insta, dont lie
bb! it's numbedtoe from livejournal. i'm trying to get in touch with you via my dissertation length comment on the sexual spectrum, but i guess you fell tf asleep reading it.
Ontd loved happy endings so I watched it and it’s a bad friends ripoff… the irony.
Penny and the junior wayans are the only funny ones.
Penny and the junior wayans are the only funny ones.
I’m not hot but I make a large amount of money and sometimes I feel guilty reading ONTD posts.
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