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can't even blame them. flop new mod did them dirty.
nayrt i started the uglee/ugly thing yesterday and have seen numerous other comments spelling it that way ever since lmao
numbedtoe
July 2nd, 2021, 04:37 pm (local)
So for my bi frands. Anyone else feeling like I do? And yeah I know spectrum, fluidity, and not 50/50 and blah blah
Men are pretty. Some of them. And a good dicking is great.good being the key word. For pure sex, 99 times out of a hundred I’m gonna go men. For pure physical attraction I’m going to look at them more than I do women. Though yeah I look at the ladies too. Always have. Dated both men and women in the past.
But for relationships? Yeah I’m only dating women I think from here on out. I just can’t do it anymore. There are so many stupid and yeah abusive jackasses that don’t treat any woman right and I’m done. I want to feel safe, have companionship, and yes intimacy. Which is bigger than and can be with or without sex. Obviously it’s with in my potential future. But I want true intimacy.
And it’s hard because I know part of it is, if not a trauma response it’s because goddamn I’m tired of these fools. So many are just trash. I don’t want to die cause we don’t click or I don’t want to see someone anymore. Be stalked or raped. Odds are in my favor with women though yeah we all know they can be horrible too. And yet that ugly thing kicks up sometimes in my head of how many bi and lesbian women are told they are only that because of trauma? The trauma myth. It’s insulting, simplistic, and lacks nuance.
I’m good at telling anyone to fuck off cause they don’t get to police my love life or reasons. But it’s been a slow slide the last few years where it feels safer and like the better option. Even though for pure sexual attraction I’m gonna pick men first. But women are on the list and it just feels a lot more viable in terms of a relationship. I can’t handle the man babies and the emotional depth and intelligence of a fork.
I’m college I read a paper talking about sexual spectrum and it had no conclusions or indictments, but it was talking about what they called “later in life” typically north of 35 and supposedly the numbers increased at 40 and 50, lesbians/bisexuals. Where women, far more than men, have a fluidity and will form relationships that do involve sex with other women and yet they feel like I do. That women can reach a point and seek out the relationship side with other women over it being a purely sexual decision. For a variety of reasons though stability and intellectual and emotional support were rated high. And no it’s not a “choice” lesbianism or bisexuality cause who doesn’t get sick of men? You can’t force an attraction that isn’t there. Though the study did bring up more women than men will have a singular same sex attraction where love came first. Often those relationships are quite successful but if it ends there was a low tendency for either person to date a woman going forward.
I read that paper like 15 years ago. And I had no big opinion on it. Made sense to me that sexuality is very individual and a lot more flexible for most, than society maybe realizes. I didn’t think one day I would go, yeah I get it. Sounds great. Sign me up. It took a few years to get here but I’m there now.
Tl;dr any other bi ladies reach a point where you want to fuck the men but only want to date/build a life with the women? Lol
https://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/121115391.html?thread=20241884159#t20241884159
July 2nd, 2021, 04:37 pm (local)
So for my bi frands. Anyone else feeling like I do? And yeah I know spectrum, fluidity, and not 50/50 and blah blah
Men are pretty. Some of them. And a good dicking is great.good being the key word. For pure sex, 99 times out of a hundred I’m gonna go men. For pure physical attraction I’m going to look at them more than I do women. Though yeah I look at the ladies too. Always have. Dated both men and women in the past.
But for relationships? Yeah I’m only dating women I think from here on out. I just can’t do it anymore. There are so many stupid and yeah abusive jackasses that don’t treat any woman right and I’m done. I want to feel safe, have companionship, and yes intimacy. Which is bigger than and can be with or without sex. Obviously it’s with in my potential future. But I want true intimacy.
And it’s hard because I know part of it is, if not a trauma response it’s because goddamn I’m tired of these fools. So many are just trash. I don’t want to die cause we don’t click or I don’t want to see someone anymore. Be stalked or raped. Odds are in my favor with women though yeah we all know they can be horrible too. And yet that ugly thing kicks up sometimes in my head of how many bi and lesbian women are told they are only that because of trauma? The trauma myth. It’s insulting, simplistic, and lacks nuance.
I’m good at telling anyone to fuck off cause they don’t get to police my love life or reasons. But it’s been a slow slide the last few years where it feels safer and like the better option. Even though for pure sexual attraction I’m gonna pick men first. But women are on the list and it just feels a lot more viable in terms of a relationship. I can’t handle the man babies and the emotional depth and intelligence of a fork.
I’m college I read a paper talking about sexual spectrum and it had no conclusions or indictments, but it was talking about what they called “later in life” typically north of 35 and supposedly the numbers increased at 40 and 50, lesbians/bisexuals. Where women, far more than men, have a fluidity and will form relationships that do involve sex with other women and yet they feel like I do. That women can reach a point and seek out the relationship side with other women over it being a purely sexual decision. For a variety of reasons though stability and intellectual and emotional support were rated high. And no it’s not a “choice” lesbianism or bisexuality cause who doesn’t get sick of men? You can’t force an attraction that isn’t there. Though the study did bring up more women than men will have a singular same sex attraction where love came first. Often those relationships are quite successful but if it ends there was a low tendency for either person to date a woman going forward.
I read that paper like 15 years ago. And I had no big opinion on it. Made sense to me that sexuality is very individual and a lot more flexible for most, than society maybe realizes. I didn’t think one day I would go, yeah I get it. Sounds great. Sign me up. It took a few years to get here but I’m there now.
Tl;dr any other bi ladies reach a point where you want to fuck the men but only want to date/build a life with the women? Lol
https://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/121115391.html?thread=20241884159#t20241884159
she rly thought she was doing something namedropping us
she's probably been typing that comment since the beginning of the ffaf and just finished
Numbedtoe, no one is reading that wall of text.
has numbedtoe always left long rambling comments like this?
please spare gay/bi women numbedtoe, they don't want you
jesus i guess we know why her toes are numb - she has to sit in one place for hours to type one comment
Imagine this non-stop, running out of breath soliloquy on a first date.
I don't remember them always being as bad as they have been recently?
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