secondmodhello ([personal profile] talentlessmod) wrote in [community profile] ontd_pandemic2022-02-05 02:28 pm

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(Anonymous) 2022-02-07 07:08 am (UTC)(link)
so i feel like ur kind of similar to me and i wonder if this is the issue... my dad never bothered to form a relationship with me and left when i was an adult, my mom was never loving, basically both my parents never bothered to spend time with me and form relationships w/ me as a kid so i was a very lonely kid and i always sought love or companionship from friends. like my friendships meant so much to me, i would get really attached to them whereas they would just treat me as a friend. i was like this all the way growing up into adulthood. were u like that w/ friends too? then with relationships or guys, when i was younger i guess i did kind of put SO MUCH into a guy and create this fantasy romance i wanted and be too clingy i guess. i know that this behavior all stemmed from the fact that i just didn't get that love and companionship as a child growing up from my family and i craved it so much and sought it out somewhere else. i wonder if ur doing the same thing. i don't really do that anymore tho, i still feel kinda lonely and stuff and would like a relationship and more friends but since i'm aware of it i just try to not behave like that i guess

(Anonymous) 2022-02-07 07:18 am (UTC)(link)
i think i definitely feel stuff this deeply, but i know it's not socially acceptable to admit it, so im always hiding how invested i actually am in friendships and relationships and seem detached when it actually consumes a great deal of my daily thoughts. so basically like the last sentence for sure