uh whenever ppl wonder why some couples have so many kids in ontd posts or think it's irresponsible with climate change or the world going to shit, she gets overdefensive and starts implying that ontd is filled with bitter childless ppl who hate children.
she's right though lmao and that's not implying all childless women are loser. u can find millions of childfree women who are happy as can be... but they're not on ontd!
and the childfree users regularly project their misery and childhood trauma onto mothers. if you were truly happy being childfree, which many women are, you wouldn't give a shit about other people's kids.
nobody is projecting anything onto mothers tf? it's usually couples getting dragged. and ontd is no r/childfree calm down with the histrionics. pointing out that child-rearing and washing your husband's ass isn't inherently meaningful or even interesting isn't offensive.
ia, there's a lot of projection. i think a lot of the more aggressive childfree people actually want kids but are bitter bc they never found the right partner.
not having a child or multiple children is the single biggest contribution to reducing one's carbon footprint for a human individual. so they could eat big macs everyday and would probably still contribute less to climate change.
A lot of the childfree ppl are concerned about the children's well-being though? Like with Hilaria Baldwin having like a dozen children in a few years. That's not being responsible towards the kids. That's some pregnancy fetish/conservative family fantasy.
hilaria legit has npd or some other serious personality disorder. normal women don't pop out 12 kids in 10 years. you can be against her and still have kids. in fact a lot of of her most vocal haters are mommy bloggers.
that's like saying you're childfree because of the duggars even though the avg american household has only 2.5 kids.
ontd has never called anyone out for having one or two children afaik so I don't know what the problem is then?? it's ppl like james vanderbeek who are criticised.
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