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i found out my closest friend was secretly dating and living with a guy for three years and didn’t tell me because i didn’t like him the one time i met him. and of course he turned out to be a psycho piece of shit, like i clocked on day one. imagine living with a man for three years and not telling someone you talk to everyday about it because in your heart of hearts you know it was a bad idea.

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I know you can't help your attraction but god straight relationships seem super repressive

i have yet to see a single one in any of my friend groups that doesn’t seem nightmarish. even the ones that seem okay, the dude turns out to be a complete piece of shit. it’s sad

sounds like they need supportive people in their life right now, so rather than making this about you maybe be there for them

what about my one comment on an anon community makes you think i’m not being supportive in my real life? dumbass

lol yeah you sound like a real peach. good luck

you're right and I feel you

Sounds like what an insecure woman who wants her bad choices validated would say.

Sadly some women can’t love themselves enough to make good choices. If she really is your closest friend, you may want to ask yourself at this point just how well you know each other, Because keeping a secret like this from you for three years is a pretty big red flag that something isn’t right with her.

our friendship has definitely been strained since she finally confessed, i mostly don’t understand why she wouldn’t tell me. i’ve never been overly judgmental of her boyfriends or anything. i suspect she was ashamed because he made tonedeaf sexist comments to her the one time i met him which is why i couldn’t stand his ass. we’ve been friends forever though and been through a lot together so i’m still figuring out my feelings on it all.

I’ve been in your shoes, and it ended with us breaking up a years long friendship. Just warning you bb, it sounds to me like this friendship may have run its course. Be ready for that.

They’re your closest friend and she was living with someone for THREE YEARS and you didn’t know?? Something doesn’t smell right.

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