One of my best friends is NB/"transman" now, and I find it exhausting to talk to her now. She always has to call everyone ~cis~, and just sounds really cult-y. I feel like I have to either distance myself from her, or tell her I'm gender critical, and don't believe in all the gender woo.

And she calls herself "gay" & "fag", but dates women?? I just can't...