it is racism. Centuries of propping up whiteness as the standard has had cascading effects. I'm not saying you are a racist horrible person but we're all subject to racist ideals regardless of race.
I feel like that's such a delicate thing. Like, I definitely side eye POC who ONLY date white men. However, society has brainwashed us into thinking whiteness is the ultimate prize and the standard of beauty. I'm not saying you shouldn't date white people at all but it definitely means something if you'll never date outside your race and only date white men.
It is likely a result of internalized racism but there’s nothing to be done about your personal attraction so I wouldn’t worry about it. you’re not a bad person for closing your legs to people you aren’t attracted to.
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